His and hers wedding bands: how to choose a matching set
4 min read · True Vow Rings
Matching bands do not have to be identical. They need one thing in common, so they look like a pair when your hands are together.
Option 1: same band, two widths
The easiest set. The Polished Dome Tungsten Wedding Band comes in a slim 2 or 3 mm for her and a bold 8 mm for him. Same shine, same dome shape, different presence.
Option 2: same metal colour, different styles
He wears the Brushed Tungsten Band, she wears a silver tone 3 mm Stacking Band with her engagement ring. Both are cool, grey-white tones, so they read as a set.
Size both rings properly
Measure both fingers on the same day with our ring size guide. Remember that his wider band will feel tighter than her slim one. Browse men's bands and women's bands.
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Questions and answers
Do his and hers bands have to be the same metal?
No, but the same colour family makes them look like a pair.
Can she wear a tungsten band?
Yes. A slim 2 or 3 mm tungsten band suits many women who want a durable everyday ring.
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